{"id":174,"date":"2015-02-25T22:24:19","date_gmt":"2015-02-25T22:24:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.uca.edu\/gogreek\/?p=174"},"modified":"2017-07-09T06:08:43","modified_gmt":"2017-07-09T06:08:43","slug":"on-to-the-next-chapter","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.uca.edu\/gogreek\/2015\/02\/25\/on-to-the-next-chapter\/","title":{"rendered":"On to the Next Chapter"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"mceTemp\">\n<dl class=\"wp-caption  alignright\" id=\"attachment_177\" style=\"width: 310px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\">\n<h1 style=\"text-align: center\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.uca.edu\/gogreek\/files\/2015\/02\/IMG_16053.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-177\" alt=\"My first day at UCA in 2011.\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.uca.edu\/gogreek\/files\/2015\/02\/IMG_16053-300x225.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.uca.edu\/gogreek\/files\/2015\/02\/IMG_16053-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.uca.edu\/gogreek\/files\/2015\/02\/IMG_16053-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/blogs.uca.edu\/gogreek\/files\/2015\/02\/IMG_16053-399x300.jpg 399w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>My first day at UCA in 2011.<\/h1>\n<\/dt>\n<\/dl>\n<p>I have never told a lot of people this, but in the fall of 2010 I was invited to interview at two college campus for similar fraternity\/sorority advisor positions. \u00a0The interviews were about a week apart and both schools subsequently offered me positions within a few days of each other.\u00a0 I had\u00a0a hard decision to make because both schools were fantastic and would offer me a great first step into the professional <a href='http:\/\/www.cartierlovebracelet.co\/'>cartier bracelet<br \/>\n<\/a> realm of higher education.\u00a0 I stressed over which offer to accept for days, calling virtually every person I had ever known to obtain their position, and mulling over the smallest of details before finally reaching a decision.\u00a0 When I had finally made my mind up, the deciding factor was not pay, benefits, or even the national rankings of the fraternity\/sorority community.\u00a0 The deciding factors for me were the growth potential the school offered to me as a young professional and the people I would share an office with each day.\u00a0 Rather than accepting the position <a href='http:\/\/www.callingallcakes.org\/'>cartier jewelry replica<\/a> that would have kept me closer to home and provided me with an opportunity to work with a top-ranked fraternity\/sorority community, I moved to a state where I had no friends, family, or alumni chapters within hundreds of miles.\u00a0 I wanted the challenge and I knew that accepting the offer from the University of Central Arkansas (UCA) would provide me with experiences that would mold me for my future professional career.<\/p>\n<p>Moving down to Arkansas was a pain, but I found how to open a cartier bracelet<br \/>\n myself welcomed into an office that functioned like a family.\u00a0 Most people outside of the office were wary of me because I was a young Yankee that had an earring.\u00a0 I knew little of the South beyond what I read in books (I love Southern history), so I did my best to take it all in and listen more than I spoke.\u00a0 I was a stranger in a strange land, but I had an office family to help guide me along the way.\u00a0 My first few months were literally a trial by fire because of spring recruitment, investigations, hearings, and step show.\u00a0 Even so, I survived and prospered.\u00a0 Time flew by and before I knew it one semester was down, then another, and then one more.\u00a0 Pretty soon semesters turned into years and the state that I had cautiously moved to in 2011 became a second home.\u00a0 Bonds grew with coworkers, students, alumni, and members of the community to the extent that I began feeling like a regular <a href='http:\/\/www.uwst.org\/bracelet-replica-car'>bracelets<\/a> member of the UCA and Conway communities.\u00a0 By 2014, I had faced my fear of the unknown and triumphed as a person and a professional.\u00a0 I had accomplished what many thought was impossible for a young man from the Midwest in the South.<\/p>\n<dl class=\"wp-caption  alignright\" id=\"attachment_183\" style=\"width: 310px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\">\n<h1 style=\"text-align: center\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.uca.edu\/gogreek\/files\/2015\/02\/10484563_10203050660048470_5769514971112772437_o-1.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-183\" alt=\"I'm a pretty lucky guy.\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.uca.edu\/gogreek\/files\/2015\/02\/10484563_10203050660048470_5769514971112772437_o-1-300x300.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.uca.edu\/gogreek\/files\/2015\/02\/10484563_10203050660048470_5769514971112772437_o-1-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.uca.edu\/gogreek\/files\/2015\/02\/10484563_10203050660048470_5769514971112772437_o-1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/blogs.uca.edu\/gogreek\/files\/2015\/02\/10484563_10203050660048470_5769514971112772437_o-1-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/blogs.uca.edu\/gogreek\/files\/2015\/02\/10484563_10203050660048470_5769514971112772437_o-1.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>I&#8217;m a pretty lucky guy.<\/h1>\n<\/dt>\n<\/dl>\n<p>That same year, I found that I was finally ready to explore and pursue new job\u00a0opportunities.\u00a0 I had kicked around the idea before and even taken some interviews, but nothing seemed to click.\u00a0 Things were different this time around though because I had many years of experience under my belt and the love and support of an amazing young woman.\u00a0 In 2014 I reconnected with a young woman from my college days, named Smita.\u00a0 We knew each other somewhat in the past, but for some reason things just clicked this time around.\u00a0 As the year progressed things became increasingly serious between us and our discussions progressed to planning for the future.\u00a0 As fun as long distance may be, we both decided that one of us would need to move in order for our relationship to take that next step, so I volunteered as tribute.\u00a0 I knew this would potentially mean a lot of personal and professional changes for me, but my gut told me to do whatever was necessary to be closer to her, so I let my supervisor know I was looking and hopped head first into a Chicago job search.<\/p>\n<dl class=\"wp-caption alignright\" id=\"attachment_186\" style=\"width: 310px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.uca.edu\/gogreek\/files\/2015\/02\/2014-08-07-182.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-186 \" alt=\"Going to live right across the street from this.\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.uca.edu\/gogreek\/files\/2015\/02\/2014-08-07-182-300x127.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"127\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.uca.edu\/gogreek\/files\/2015\/02\/2014-08-07-182-300x127.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.uca.edu\/gogreek\/files\/2015\/02\/2014-08-07-182-1024x436.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/blogs.uca.edu\/gogreek\/files\/2015\/02\/2014-08-07-182-500x213.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/dt>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">\n<h1 style=\"text-align: center\">My new view.<\/h1>\n<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<p>After many months of searching, things finally started to click towards the end of 2014 and\u00a0into the new year.\u00a0 Around the beginning of February I was offered an opportunity with a great company in Chicago and I went into the panic mode I mentioned in the first paragraph.\u00a0 After phoning all of my friends and consulting with my incredibly patient and kind girlfriend, I accepted the offer.\u00a0 It was a hard thing to do, especially given the timing in the semester, but after accepting I felt relieved.\u00a0 I was sad that I would be leaving a wonderful place I have called home for over four years, but I had the opportunity of a lifetime in front of me.\u00a0 Not only did I have a great job lined up, but I would also have the opportunity to take my relationship with Smita to the next level.\u00a0 For the first time in a long while, I felt genuinely happy, which lets me know that I made the correct decision.<\/p>\n<p>So where does that leave the IFC\/IGC men and our office?\u00a0 Well, it means that our office will be opening up a national search for my position and the men will have an interim advisor until the new person starts.\u00a0 No, things will not fall apart and the fraternity system will not turn into <i>Animal House 2015<\/i>.\u00a0 Everything will continue on as normal and the current executive boards of IFC and IGC will continue to do fantastic things.\u00a0 Both are led by amazing individuals that want to make serious improvements and impacts, so be on the lookout for serious advancements by the end of the year.\u00a0 The only thing that will be different is that I will not be around to offer insights, support, and constructive feedback.\u00a0 I would not have left if I did not think either council or the Office of Student Life could handle things without me, so please do not be concerned or lose interest in creating positive change.\u00a0 There is still so much that can be done, so our leaders need the help and support of our entire community, especially during this time of transition.<\/p>\n<p>As my days left at UCA wind down, I am sure that some are sad that I am leaving, others are happy, and the vast majority will probably not notice much difference in their lives.\u00a0 I am not trying to downplay my impact at UCA, but I am also not going to claim that I moved mountains.\u00a0 It is not my place to comment on how good or bad of a job I did while in my position because those comments are left for individual opinions and history texts.\u00a0 I could end this and say that I changed a lot within IFC and IGC, but I know that is not the truth.\u00a0 Why?\u00a0 Because I did not do anything alone while I have been at UCA.\u00a0 I have worked tirelessly alongside amazing staff, students, alumni, national representatives, and local stakeholders to enact change in the UCA fraternity\/sorority community since 2011.\u00a0 Together we have accomplished a great deal and set the community up for incredible future successes.\u00a0 We kept each other accountable, adjusted plans as needed, and supported one another during those dark days.\u00a0 The journey has never been, nor ever will be, easy.\u00a0 In fact, our work has been a pain in the ass most days, but we kept at it because our goal has always been to offer one of the best values-based, developmental, and enjoyable fraternity\/sorority experiences in the state of Arkansas and the region.\u00a0 Without a doubt, I know that we have succeeded and will continue to improve over the coming years.<\/p>\n<p>The work we have done has been amazing, but it is not even close to being over.\u00a0 Our councils are continuing to grow and diversify, leadership opportunities are more prevalent than ever, new member education services and programs are improving, and Greek Village will open just in time for the fall 2015 semester.\u00a0 Big things are on the horizon for UCA fraternity\/sorority life, so please keep modernizing, innovating, and improving.\u00a0 Now, more than ever before, is the time to step up and take that leadership role or be the voice of reason in a chapter or council meeting.\u00a0 Our community is 100 year old and on the precipice of another century, so please make sure that you are helping to push the community forward in a positive direction rather than hold everyone back by being uninformed, negative, or resistant.\u00a0 As individuals we are weak; as chapters we are strong; and as a community we are powerful.\u00a0 Without the help of all community members, the UCA fraternity\/sorority community cannot create a shared vision and achieve excellence. \u00a0Remember that as you help create and shape the vision for the next 100 years of the UCA fraternity\/sorority community.<\/p>\n<dl class=\"wp-caption alignright\" id=\"attachment_188\" style=\"width: 310px\">\n<dt class=\"wp-caption-dt\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.uca.edu\/gogreek\/files\/2015\/02\/10286788_10101860520314395_4918935979265406240_o.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-188\" alt=\"It's been a blast.\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.uca.edu\/gogreek\/files\/2015\/02\/10286788_10101860520314395_4918935979265406240_o-300x200.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.uca.edu\/gogreek\/files\/2015\/02\/10286788_10101860520314395_4918935979265406240_o-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.uca.edu\/gogreek\/files\/2015\/02\/10286788_10101860520314395_4918935979265406240_o-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/blogs.uca.edu\/gogreek\/files\/2015\/02\/10286788_10101860520314395_4918935979265406240_o-449x300.jpg 449w, https:\/\/blogs.uca.edu\/gogreek\/files\/2015\/02\/10286788_10101860520314395_4918935979265406240_o.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/dt>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">\n<h1 style=\"text-align: center\">It&#8217;s been a blast.<\/h1>\n<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<p>Thank you to everyone that has helped and challenged me along the way since I came to Arkansas in 2011.\u00a0 There are too many of you to thank individually, but please know that each of you has a special place in my heart.\u00a0 Without all of you, I would not be the person I am today.<\/p>\n<p>Take care,<\/p>\n<p>Scott<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My first day at UCA in 2011. 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